Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Relationships. Show all posts

23.3.11

Things I Like

Living alone.

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I grew up in a family of six children, which meant that no matter what, someone was always around.  Now, my three younger sisters and I live with my mother in a two-bedroom apartment.  I usually sleep on a mattress on the floor for the few weeks I'm home out of the year, but my bed is currently being occupied by my oldest sister, who is staying with us for a few months.

After I graduate this May, that little two-bedroom apartment is going to be pretty dang crowded, and I won't be able to afford rent on my own in California for a while.  I'm considering toting some couch cushions out onto the balcony and sleeping there.  It'll be like camping, except instead of a tent and campfire, I'll have the disapproving stare one gruff, old neighbor across the way who waters his begonias early each morning.

That being said, this two-week Spring Break has been the most experience I've ever had living alone, and I love it.  As an introvert who is very passionate about dancing about in various states of (un)dress, I'm somewhat concerned about how much I like having a place to myself.  What if I never want to shack up with someone?

Most people seem to worry about never finding a mate.  I'm more worried I'll find one, but demand that we live in separate houses for the rest of our lives.  Like sea horses.  Or a 50s sitcom taken to the extreme.


Whoa there, Ricky.  You just keep to your own bed there, pal.
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16.1.11

Whoosh


I'm leaving the eighty-degree-California-winter weather and flying back to the snowy Midwest today, where the temperature is currently 9 degrees.

And boy, are my arms tired!

A couple years ago, before I started flying back and forth to school four times a year and drove cross-country to move twice in two years, I romanticized travel.  The open road, the empty sky, the clouds like...exploded marshmallows, or something.  Now I just try to finagle it so that my layovers are in an airport with a Panda Express.

I've been hearing as much talk about these sites as I have about the Arizona shooting lately.  Even though they're kind of cutesy, I guess it's not a bad idea to think about what you want from a relationship and communicate it snarkily.  Even on a tumblr.


Image via Kate Starling.